Dear Coleen: He’s on a dating site but still expects to marry me

Submit your questions for Meredith here. So this one may hit a bit close to home for you, but I find myself wondering whether people who are middle aged and have never been married are worth dating . Initially, I swiped left on anyone who listed themselves as never married. Rationally, I know a lot of wonderful folks simply have not found the right person and refused to settle. How likely is someone who has never been married by their 40s to be a good partner vs. Yes, this does hit close to home. Like, right inside of my glorious spinster house. My instinct, when I read your letter, was to get very defensive about your concerns. You assume singles like me 42, never married like life as is and have a ton of boundaries.