Dating from a Vacuum

Video chat is a popular tool among businesses and friend groups to maintain communication and share the latest updates on work and personal life. Since the outbreak of coronavirus, a number of video-based dating applications have begun to surface, including Swivel and Quarantine Together , which both offer users the ability to speed date through video chat. Even established dating apps such as Bumble are making adjustments to adapt to the new reality.

One of the latest apps helping users connect via video is Teleport , formerly known as Firstdate. Users are hand-picked to join events based on compatibility. They meet with five people for six minutes each in an effort to find a match.

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April 10, City Life Feature. Sign up for our newsletters Subscribe. I cruised through my pre-date ritual with a rhythmic familiarity: showered, moisturized, tweezed errant hairs from my eyebrows, put on makeup, threw on my favorite jeans and sweater, and paced around my room to whittle away at the nervous pit in my stomach. Standing in front of the mirror, I swiveled back and forth to investigate every angle, grimacing at the way my ass looked in my jeans as I normally would before catching myself—on the other side of the webcam, I would exist only from the shoulders up, and in one dimension.

I have been on first dates at bars, restaurants, and coffee shops. I’ve been to the Art Institute, to a student opera, and to improv shows. I had, until recently, never had a first date over Google Hangouts—a few weeks ago I would have laughed at the prospect. Since then, the world has changed, in ways that, if not outright horrific, are just mundanely bizarre. Even now, the apps have maintained their usual staples: preppy consultants who promise your mom will love them, aspiring rappers whose profiles link to their Soundcloud tracks, aloof men who claim to be there “for a good time, not a long time,” and couples seeking a third party for threesomes.